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Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Good Friends Make you Happy

Gravity of individual friendships can have a large cumulative effect on the quality of our lives. More and more people are into, whether living alone by choice or circumstance, other people can take this friendship is full of emotional space as a spouse or partner. Friends can connect us to the wider social network and enrich our lives. At the end of the day, a friend can be all the difference in the emotional oasis.
"Friendship is what makes us uniquely human," James Fowler, professor of medical genetics at the University of California, San Diego political science says. "There is too broad and the other members of the species cross-species acts. So just, you know you're doing what you really study it, we have a special time to study this relationship with a friend."

After winning research and the impact on health and the health of the other relationship types, relationship expert Lisa Burke at Harvard who has developed a comprehensive view of the relationships needed to thrive. Friends and family, or an intimate and casual friendship, not the best mix. "You can replace this thing," she says. "People have a lot of friends may not need a lot of family ties." Religious and other interest groups also meet our need for human companionship and reinforcement can provide emotional support and contact with the big guy.

Strong friendship is precious, people need to provide verification of interest to others. "The relationship is set up to meet their goals and purpose, they are able to control their own lives, they can, so that people can feel worthy," Toni Antonucci, professor of psychology at the University of Michigan says. Antonucci she was not quite so close, close, close-up, but still significant personal relationship with a description of three concentric circles have developed a structure for expressing friendship rings provide a less intense emotional intimate friendship to fill a specific function and other requirements the relationship may be different roles.

Aides who are generally considered to include the family and close friends. Typically someone how Romero Blieszner, an expert in aging and adult development at Virginia Tech heard saying, "My brother and I we were best friends, so close" or for example, notes, "My girlfriend and I think we are sisters , very close. "
Close friend to show strong support and affection Blieszner says. Friend is listening to pay attention to you people, you are willing to share interests and help, fills a valuable role, such as self-confidence. This balance does not take place often give too much weight on one side.

Women, it turns out, another woman is often a better friend to man. Women are also creating value while directly involved in shared activities and enjoy the experience of his friend. The man, however, do not tend to enjoy a lot of interaction with the basics of sports events and other activities to share their experiences. "Men are dependent on women and girls, trust a woman" Blieszner explains, "so I think that women are perceived as better listeners." She rented a comment from a retired psychologist from Paul Wright, University of North Dakota to explain how men interact differently friend.

When you are given the ability to make your friends happy or sad number, Fowler said, the temptation can be to sacrifice a friend's network in order to eliminate the people have a negative effect on you. I just would not get completely removed my friends, "You, uh, you can say" "That is absolutely the wrong advice," he says. According to his research, it is to delete the bad friend actually increase the risk that your happiness will be reduced.

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